{"id":33291,"date":"2026-06-24T21:25:03","date_gmt":"2026-06-24T13:25:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/owis.org\/in\/?p=33291"},"modified":"2026-07-15T21:33:25","modified_gmt":"2026-07-15T13:33:25","slug":"a-parents-guide-to-understanding-and-overcoming-preschool-separation-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/owis.org\/in\/guide\/a-parents-guide-to-understanding-and-overcoming-preschool-separation-anxiety\/","title":{"rendered":"A Parent\u2019s Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Preschool Separation Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"33291\" class=\"elementor elementor-33291\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section data-exad-particle-enable=\"false\" class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-16dc07b4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default exad-parallax-effect-no exad-background-color-change-no exad-glass-effect-no exad-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"16dc07b4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6b767fc exad-glass-effect-no exad-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"6b767fc\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5edca7cf exad-sticky-section-no exad-glass-effect-no elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5edca7cf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Key Takeaways<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Separation anxiety is a normal part of early childhood development, typically peaking between ages 18 months and 3 years.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Preschool anxiety is common but very manageable with the right strategies at home and at school.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consistent goodbye routines, calm parental behaviour, and warm classroom environments are among the most effective tools.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Schools following the IB framework, like OWIS Bangalore, build social-emotional learning into the daily curriculum to support early transitions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Early action matters. If distress continues beyond 4\u20136 weeks without improvement, speaking to a counsellor is the right step.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><b>What Is Preschool Separation Anxiety?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your child clings to your leg every single morning at the school gate, you are certainly not alone. Separation anxiety is one of the most common concerns parents raise in the early years, and it is completely understandable why it tugs at your heart too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At its core, separation anxiety is the distress a child feels when separated from their primary caregiver. In the preschool years, this shows up as crying, clinging, tantrums, or even physical symptoms like a stomach ache before school. This is a developmentally normal response, not a sign that something is wrong with your child or your parenting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most children begin showing signs of it around 8 to 12 months of age. It can resurface when they start preschool, typically between ages 2.5 and 4, because school is the first significant environment outside the family home. That is a big deal for a small person.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Why Does Separation Anxiety Happen at This Age?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Young children experience the world through attachment. Their parents are their safe base, the people who make everything feel predictable and secure. When that base disappears, even temporarily, their nervous system shifts into distress mode.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A few things make preschool especially triggering:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Novelty: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A new building, new faces, and new routines all arrive at once.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Object permanence gaps: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Children this age understand you have left but do not yet fully trust that you will always come back.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Language limits: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They may lack the words to describe what they feel, so the emotion comes out as behaviour instead.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Temperament: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some children are naturally more sensitive or slow to warm up. This is a personality trait, not a flaw, and it often comes with remarkable empathy and depth.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here is the reassuring part: your child\u2019s distress is actually a sign of healthy, secure attachment to you. Worth holding on to at the school gate.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>How Do You Recognise the Signs in Your Child?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most preschoolers show some level of <\/span><b>preschool anxiety<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when starting school, and that is completely expected. The question is whether what you are seeing is a normal adjustment phase or something that needs a closer look.<\/span><\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"background-color: #40baec; color: #fff; border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><b>Signs of Normal Adjustment<\/b><\/td>\n<td style=\"background-color: #40baec; color: #fff; border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><b>Signs That Need Attention<\/b><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Crying at drop-off but settling within 15\u201320 minutes<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Crying that continues most of the school day, repeatedly<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Morning clinginess only<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Refusing to attend school regularly<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mild stomach aches on school days<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persistent physical complaints (headaches, vomiting)<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Asking about parents during the day<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Extreme withdrawal or regression at home<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Settles in after a few weeks<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid; padding: 10px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Distress continuing beyond 4\u20136 weeks with no improvement<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your child\u2019s experience looks more like the right-hand column consistently, it is worth a conversation with their teacher and, if needed, a paediatric counsellor. Asking for support early is always the right call.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Why Does Addressing It Early Make Such a Difference?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be tempting to take a wait-and-see approach, hoping the phase passes on its own. Sometimes it does. But when anxiety is left unaddressed, it has a way of growing roots.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research shows that separation anxiety disorder in childhood is a significant risk factor for anxiety disorders in adolescence and adulthood. One study found that 75% of adults with anxiety disorders had experienced separation anxiety as children. Closer to home, epidemiological studies across India have reported that the prevalence of anxiety disorders in children and adolescents ranges from 1.3% to 4.2%, according to the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S187620181300378X\"> <b>Indian Council of Medical Research<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> These figures represent a significant number of children whose early distress went unrecognised.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/mindvoyage.in\/india-mental-health-statistics\/\"><b>National Mental Health Survey (NHMS)<\/b> <\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">found that around 9.8 million children aged 13\u201317 in India needed active mental health support. Many of them showed early warning signs well before their teenage years. That is precisely why the preschool window matters so much. Catching and addressing preschool anxiety early, with the right support at home and school, gives children the emotional scaffolding they need for all the years ahead, academically, socially, and personally.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Early action is not about over-pathologising a normal childhood experience. It is about giving your child the tools to navigate it successfully, before the pattern becomes entrenched.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>How Can Parents Help Their Child Overcome Separation Anxiety?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is the part every parent is looking for. The good news is there is a great deal you can do, starting tomorrow morning.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Build a consistent goodbye ritual.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Children thrive on predictability. A short, warm sequence, such as a hug, a high-five, and one steady phrase like \u201cI will pick you up after lunch,\u201d repeated every day, tells your child\u2019s brain that this situation is safe and normal.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Never sneak out.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> It is tempting to slip away when your child seems distracted, but this often deepens anxiety over time. Your child needs to see you leave so they can learn, gradually, that you always come back.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Stay calm at drop-off.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Children are remarkably good at reading parental emotions. If you look anxious or guilty, your child registers this as confirmation that the situation is worrying. A warm, confident farewell is one of the most powerful things you can offer, even if you have a quiet cry in the car afterwards.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Talk about school at home.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Try specific questions rather than a general \u201cHow was school?\u201d Ask \u201cWho did you sit next to at snack time?\u201d or \u201cWhat made you laugh today?\u201d This steadily builds positive associations with school in your child\u2019s mind.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Read books about starting school together.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Stories featuring characters who navigate new beginnings help children feel understood and less alone in what they are feeling.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Communicate regularly with the teacher.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A skilled early years teacher will have strategies ready. The more they understand your child at home, the better they can support them at school.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><b>Which School Environment Helps Children Settle Faster?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The school environment plays a significant role in how quickly a child moves from anxious to comfortable. A warm, structured, and emotionally intelligent classroom can make the entire transition feel far less daunting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/owis.org\/in\/\"><b>One World International School (OWIS)<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, one of the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">top IB schools in Bangalore<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/owis.org\/in\/bangalore\/academics\/ib-early-years-programme-curriculum\/\"><b> Early Years Programme<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is built on the International Baccalaureate framework, which places the whole child at the centre of learning. From their very first day, children are encouraged to name their emotions, build friendships, and develop independence in ways that feel genuinely safe and supported.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">IB subjects<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> at primary level are structured around Units of Inquiry with themes like \u201cWho We Are\u201d and \u201cHow We Express Ourselves\u201d \u2014 themes that are deeply relevant to a child navigating their first weeks away from home. They give children language, context, and a sense of community to anchor themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parents looking for the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">best IB schools in Bangalore<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> would do well to look beyond academic rankings and ask: how does this school actually support a 4-year-old who misses their mum? At OWIS, that answer is woven into the curriculum design, the training of every early years educator, and the purposeful spaces built specifically for young learners.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Frequently Asked Questions<\/b><\/h2>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section data-exad-particle-enable=\"false\" class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cedfa73 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default exad-parallax-effect-no exad-background-color-change-no exad-glass-effect-no exad-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"cedfa73\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-93e2dca exad-glass-effect-no exad-sticky-section-no\" data-id=\"93e2dca\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0ca1057 exad-sticky-section-no exad-glass-effect-no elementor-widget elementor-widget-elementskit-accordion\" data-id=\"0ca1057\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"elementskit-accordion.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ekit-wid-con\" >\n        <div class=\"elementskit-accordion accoedion-primary\" id=\"accordion-6a58fcc00df46\">\n\n            \n                <div class=\"elementskit-card active\">\n                    <div class=\"elementskit-card-header\" id=\"primaryHeading-0-0ca1057\">\n                        <a href=\"#collapse-1b044d76a58fcc00df46\" class=\"ekit-accordion--toggler elementskit-btn-link collapsed\" data-ekit-toggle=\"collapse\" data-target=\"#Collapse-1b044d76a58fcc00df46\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-controls=\"Collapse-1b044d76a58fcc00df46\">\n                            \n                            <span class=\"ekit-accordion-title\">1. How long does preschool separation anxiety typically last?<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                <div class=\"ekit_accordion_icon_group\">\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_normal_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Normal Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-down-arrow1\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_active_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Active Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-up-arrow\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n                                <\/div>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-1b044d76a58fcc00df46\" class=\" show collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-0-0ca1057\" data-parent=\"#accordion-6a58fcc00df46\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For most children, the adjustment period lasts two to six weeks. Every child moves at their own pace. If distress continues well beyond six weeks without any sign of settling, a conversation with the school counsellor is a wise and sensible step.<\/span><\/p>                        <\/div>\n\n                    <\/div>\n\n                <\/div><!-- .elementskit-card END -->\n\n                \n                <div class=\"elementskit-card \">\n                    <div class=\"elementskit-card-header\" id=\"primaryHeading-1-0ca1057\">\n                        <a href=\"#collapse-e692a026a58fcc00df46\" class=\"ekit-accordion--toggler elementskit-btn-link collapsed\" data-ekit-toggle=\"collapse\" data-target=\"#Collapse-e692a026a58fcc00df46\" aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"Collapse-e692a026a58fcc00df46\">\n                            \n                            <span class=\"ekit-accordion-title\">2. Should I stay in class with my child to help them settle?<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                <div class=\"ekit_accordion_icon_group\">\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_normal_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Normal Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-down-arrow1\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_active_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Active Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-up-arrow\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n                                <\/div>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-e692a026a58fcc00df46\" class=\" collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-1-0ca1057\" data-parent=\"#accordion-6a58fcc00df46\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Brief transition visits can help in the very first few days. However, extended parental presence can sometimes delay independence. Work with your child\u2019s teacher to find an approach that suits your child\u2019s temperament and the school\u2019s transition programme.<\/span><\/p>                        <\/div>\n\n                    <\/div>\n\n                <\/div><!-- .elementskit-card END -->\n\n                \n                <div class=\"elementskit-card \">\n                    <div class=\"elementskit-card-header\" id=\"primaryHeading-2-0ca1057\">\n                        <a href=\"#collapse-222e3a66a58fcc00df46\" class=\"ekit-accordion--toggler elementskit-btn-link collapsed\" data-ekit-toggle=\"collapse\" data-target=\"#Collapse-222e3a66a58fcc00df46\" aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"Collapse-222e3a66a58fcc00df46\">\n                            \n                            <span class=\"ekit-accordion-title\">3. Can my own anxiety at drop-off affect my child?<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                <div class=\"ekit_accordion_icon_group\">\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_normal_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Normal Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-down-arrow1\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_active_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Active Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-up-arrow\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n                                <\/div>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-222e3a66a58fcc00df46\" class=\" collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-2-0ca1057\" data-parent=\"#accordion-6a58fcc00df46\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Yes, it genuinely can. Children are highly attuned to parental emotional states. Practising a calm, confident goodbye, even when it feels difficult, is one of the most effective things you can do for your child in those early weeks.<\/span><\/p>                        <\/div>\n\n                    <\/div>\n\n                <\/div><!-- .elementskit-card END -->\n\n                \n                <div class=\"elementskit-card \">\n                    <div class=\"elementskit-card-header\" id=\"primaryHeading-3-0ca1057\">\n                        <a href=\"#collapse-fa296ed6a58fcc00df46\" class=\"ekit-accordion--toggler elementskit-btn-link collapsed\" data-ekit-toggle=\"collapse\" data-target=\"#Collapse-fa296ed6a58fcc00df46\" aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"Collapse-fa296ed6a58fcc00df46\">\n                            \n                            <span class=\"ekit-accordion-title\">4. When should I consult a professional about my child\u2019s separation anxiety?<\/span>\n\n                            \n                                <div class=\"ekit_accordion_icon_group\">\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_normal_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Normal Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-down-arrow1\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n\n                                    <div class=\"ekit_accordion_active_icon\">\n                                        <!-- Active Icon -->\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"icon icon-up-arrow\"><\/i>                                    <\/div>\n                                <\/div>\n\n                            \n                                                    <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n\n                    <div id=\"Collapse-fa296ed6a58fcc00df46\" class=\" collapse\" aria-labelledby=\"primaryHeading-3-0ca1057\" data-parent=\"#accordion-6a58fcc00df46\">\n\n                        <div class=\"elementskit-card-body ekit-accordion--content\">\n                            <p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If your child\u2019s distress is severe, persistent, and clearly interfering with daily life after several weeks of school, consult your paediatrician or a child psychologist. Seeking support early leads to far better outcomes. There is no need to wait and hope it passes on its own.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">At OWIS, we believe that a child\u2019s emotional wellbeing is the foundation of everything else they learn.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If you have questions about how our Early Years Programme supports children through transitions, we invite you to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/owis.org\/in\/enquire-now\/\"> <b>get in touch with us<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>                        <\/div>\n\n                    <\/div>\n\n                <\/div><!-- .elementskit-card END -->\n\n                                        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Key Takeaways Separation anxiety is a normal part of early childhood development, typically peaking between ages 18 months and 3 years. 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